It's possible that your former friend was told that she would be disfellowshiped if she associated with a known lesbian. Pretty stupid, I know, but it wouldn't be the first time I've seen this happen. I swear some of the JW's still think that being gay is somehow contagious.

Congrats on finding a new love in your life. Anything we can do to help you understand what she has been through and may be experiencing, just let us know!


Misty