went to see 3 other elders in the congo and invited my father to come with me. There in front of all 4 of them I said as plainly as I could that I was a sexually active gay man, and I had no intention of changing or apologizing to them or anyone else about it.

That took some major Kahones!! Wow. Nerves of steal. I couldn't have done that in a million years. My respect for you grows by leaps and bounds.



"Everybody's wondering what and where they all came from
Everybody's worrying 'bout where they're gonna go
When the whole thing's done
Nobody knows for certain,
And so it's all the same to me
I Think I'll just let the mystery be"
~10000 Maniacs