tristessa wrote:
On the one hand I see us fading out but on the other I so don't want people to think we are just "weak" and "letting life hold us back".
Hi Michele and welcome to our forum ...

You're NOT being 'weak' nor are you 'letting life hold' you 'back'. You are LIVING LIFE! Totally different thing altogether. You have both worked out that the religion and its lifestyle are not for you. It takes great contemplation and courage to get to where you are now ... so stand tall and proud. You are not doing anything wrong at all. You're doing what is right for you as a family. Your family members and other JW friends may not agree with your decision but it IS your decision and they shouldn't judge you for it.

I wish you well and hope you keep visiting in here so we can get to know you more! image