Most people have similar values/morals/whatever based on how they were raised. I don't have that.
You do make sense and don't worry about rambling. I'm 36 and a first time mom. I don't worry about being too strict or too lenient. I worry about helping my daughter gain self esteem, self confidence, self love. I struggle too. She and my hubby went on a road trip without me todayimage

I'm lost without her. Enjoyed my space to but they are my life. image

I am just be there for her. I was neglected as a child and I'm surrounding her with love, discipline and all the time I can offer. That's what chiildren crave. It's what I craved. You're so wonderful for worrying so much. My dr. once said "mother's just know" It's that motherly instinct. In your heart you know what's right. Each child is an individual and have different needs. One may need more direction and another just may need a stern look.

Message me anytime. I think we have a lot in common. I've done so much healing over the years. I just look forward now. Beautiful kids you have!

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Chrissy

Don't be afraid of death, be afraid of the unlived life. You don't have to live forever, you just have to live.

-- Tuck Everlasting Alicia Heald

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