I would advise against saying anything about it.

This guy has obviously figured out that the elders were full of shit and must have kicked himself for having listened to them. Telling him would really only serve one purpose, to hurt him. Does he deserve to be hurt for what he put you through? I don't know, but having made some pretty stupid decisions based on elderly advice myself.. I would guess no.

Telling him isn't really going to make you feel any better. You've already moved on and found someone else. Let it go. Be free of it. Dredging it all up will only weigh you down again.

The above is just my opinion, of course. And I'm no guru! So take it for what it's worth. image

Misty

p.s. I'm glad you found us, btw.. and I love Tank Girl!

"Everybody's wondering what and where they all came from
Everybody's worrying 'bout where they're gonna go
When the whole thing's done
Nobody knows for certain,
And so it's all the same to me
I Think I'll just let the mystery be"
~10000 Maniacs