Ex I loved that comment to that nosy sister. You are wise beyond your years. My mother in law couldnt make the night meetings because she had cateracts and it was hard to see at night. A self righteous elderette scolded her for not making the night meetings. Of course she didnt offer to pick her up. She even told her she couldnt have a Kingdom Ministry because if she didn't go the meeting she couldn't have one. So another brother is asked if he would pick her up since he goes past her house. He drops her off across the street from her house because he doesnt want to pull in her driveway. So she has to cross a busy main street (shes in her 80s) to get to her side and walk up a long driveway in snow too. That is so loving. I found out and had a fit. Needless to say she didnt go to night meetings again. As for the story about the elders kid putting the blame on the other family that is exactly word for word what happened in our family. My husbands family was like the black sheep of the kingdom hall. Probably because they hung out with self righteous elderettes kids and they always put the blame on his family. Those kids also did some gay propositioning too. One even abused some little kids at the hall and of course got away with it.