Definately! When I was 18 this elder badgered me about taking classes at the local Community College. I took the classes at the behest of my father and thank goodness I listed to him and not this elder. It got to the point I didn't want to see him. Another elder and his family had the "perfect" status, at least in their mind. Their young son would run into my mother with a cane all the time and would never correct him. However, once I used the term "stupid" and they let this little kid correct me that "we don't say stupid, rather foolish"...BS, the bible say's stupid so why not...sometimes that is the only words to describe someone! image In later years, we had a few elders that to me seemed haughty by the way they acted. Both were large men and I think they used their physical size to intimidate. Similarly, we had this one sister that loved to pepper you with questions and you know she was just being nosey.