Gallifrey, you're not going to like what I have to say but...you're my sister so you rarely do. After reading what you have to say...having put it like you just put it (I know we talked for awhile the other morning) I want you to think about what you just wrote. You want your daughter to feel free to love Jehovah...you encourage her to love Jehovah. I know you said you give her their books to read and such. And yet you also want her to go to parties and attend the prom and go to college and do all the things that really that religion encourages them not to do. So you are teaching her one thing and then turning around and teaching her to do something else. You are really confusing that poor child. She is reading one thing...which she thinks is the right think and is what you believe in...and then is hearing something else come from you. This is what is so hard to her. This is what is causing the problem. I didn't see it so much the other day but after reading what you wrote...it just kinda hit me. Hope that helps:)