Ahh Jez ... you and your lovely wife have had quite a lot to deal with the past few weeks and months. Your daughter has admitted she's feeling that you're treating her unfairly. Pity she can't see that you're only trying to help her AVOID the dramas your adopted son has bought on himself and others around him. 13 year old girls are full of hormones and grapple with peer pressure on a daily basis ... she's acting out in an attempt to either get your attention or to find that freedom she thinks your son has found. We can't put old heads on young shoulders mate ... but you can certainly set some ground rules and stick to them. Ask the school for help as Cacky suggested and most certainly take some time out for yourself and your wife as our Brandi suggested. You need to heal yourselves and get some much needed breathing space NOW rather than later.

As my own mum said of me when she thought I was rebelling ... 'we can lead a horse to water but we can't make it drink'. Her way of making me feel bad for leaving the religion minus all the usual drama associated with leaving the religion. I was nearly 19 and didn't do anything at all wrong or 'sinful' ... however my mum thought I had! You've done what you can for now mate ... time to breathe