Hi alovejones, and welcome. I would consider whether you need to disassociate yourself. It will have many issues, many of which have been brought up on the previous posts, and some that you have mentioned yourself. If you disassociate yourself and your parents don't talk to you it's hard work getting reinstated if you decide you can't cope with that, then you'll be back where you are now. I stopped going to meetings about 15 years ago, I never disassociated myself, and I still have a good relationship with my parents. Of course there was some tough times with them over it, but not as bad as if I'd dissociated. So really think it through.

Hope it you make the right decision for you and hop it all turns out OK.