Hi there alovejones and welcome to the forum.

I won't say 'get out of that cult' ... but I will say they're organised because they need to be. You can't keep control of people and the way they live if you're not organised

I never bothered disassociating myself and never saw the need to explain myself to any of them. I just got up one night, said it wasn't for me and off I went. I lost my family for a brief moment in time, lost some friends who later turned out not to be so friendly and not once have I regretted my stance. I simply refused to continue paying lip service to a religion I didn't believe in.    That was nearly 30 years ago!

I wish you well on your journey