I agree with Carrie, listen to this girl, lol. I'm not good with words and saying things to help people, at least I don't think I am. You have to find the positive in all this, and make a new way for yourself. I look at it like its a fight that we face, you can't put your head down and quit, keep your head up, find positive things and dwell on these things. When you do talk about the JW's, try to minimize the negative shit, and say to yourself screw them, look at my life without them, I can do things, I can have meaningful friendships, I can smile everyday and feel good about me. Hope this helps, take care.