she still seems to think there could be some kind of massive conspiracy to forge old Watchtowers to make it look like they said things that they didn't.
When I first showed these same things to my husband and my parents, I got the same reaction. It's complete and utter denial. It is frustrating for someone whom your so close to , have them not believe a word your saying. I remember feeling very offended that my family would "think" I was trying to purposing miss-lead them, or that they would "think" that I was "stupid" enough to not be able to confirm my own research. Very frustrating indeed.

Whilst I respect her right to decide for herself what she believes, I am exasperated at the lack of logic and the totally brainwashed mentality. Was I really that bad once? I just hope that deep down there are some stirrings of doubt that can eventually find their way to the surface. In the meantime she continues to indoctrinate my (3 year old) daughter with these myths, and I don't know how to handle it. 
Keep in mind that you cannot go too fast with your wife on this one. She hasn't had the "doubt" set in like you did before discovering these new truths that expose the WBTS. There has to be a seed of doubt in her before she's able to open her eyes and accept the thing your showing her. Give her time. Don't show her too much. Perhap only bring up a small fact here or there when the conversation naturally turns to that subject. Cornering her and then flooding her with all these new truths is only going to shut her down. Any ex-jw will tell you that. They won't listen or think logically. Not until they are ready.

In regards your daughter, like I mentioned to you in your other thread, you really need to have a talk with your wife and explain to her that your views have changed and that you would like to have the same respect that your giving her, and allow you to raise your daughter how your see fit. Remember, that's YOUR daughter as well, not just your wifes. You have an equal right to train and teach her your way. Don't loose out hope yet. You still have time to deprogram your daughter. Just discuss it with your wife first so she's not offended and so it doesn't cause trouble in your relationship of trust with her.

In the United States alone last year, the Catholics increased their membership by over 1 million members. IOW the Catholics took in as many new converts as the JWs have total members, in the United States. Is it also obvious that Jehovah is blessing the work of Catholicism?
Superpunk: I brought this up as well to my parents after leaving the org. There only reply to that fact that "it's obvious jehovah is blessing their work" was two facts they kept bringing up. One was that they are the only religion that calls upon the name of God...."Jehovah". And two, they're apparent growth is so rapid. When I showed my parents the statistics of their numbers in comparison to other religions such as the Catholics, and showed them how insignificant the JW's are , their reply was, "yeah, but those other religions baptize babies and then count them as members. There numbers are flawed." Which of course launched into a whole debate over how the wbts also baptizes small children as young as 6 years old and how that's wrong as well. There response: "I've known 6 year olds that know more about the bible than my own neighbors!" Geesh.....there is seriously NO getting through to them until there ready to see it.