Thanks for the comments. Although it has only been a few weeks, it is becoming increasingly difficult for me to truly remember what it's like to think that way. My wife is very intelligent (she scored maximum points on the Mensa IQ test), and very humble (she always blames herself for everything and never anyone else), and in most cases quite reasonable (even before I gave her the list of quotes, she said she wanted to respect my beliefs even if she didn't agree with them). So how can she fail to see the evidence when it is right in front of her? It's very difficult to deal with - I am trying very hard to keep a close relationship with her, but since our discussion last night, there has been a definite 'chill' - and it is probably mostly my own doing, as I am the one who is frustrated, not her. 

Anybody else out there with a spouse still 'in the truth'? How do you cope?