This might be the quotes site you're referring to:

Watchtower quotes


I really like the site and it's all from the literature, so hard to dispute.

But, the closed minds of the jws aren't to be underestimated either. 

What might seem clear to every other person wouldn't to them.....still hard to explain sometimes...

Regarding your 3-year old:  She at least has one big advantage that you can see how the org works.  Not the perfect situation at all since her mom still believes it, but hopefully your insights will give her enough leverage to find her way out one day.