So many good replies...and I didn't have the heart for reading each one because it is heart breaking how that religion still wants total control while many of them question; and yet, because they remain a member see fit to shun; never taking a stand against religion that teaches them such bullshit. 

I'm so very sorry; sitting and crying at times with how others suffer because of the WTBTS/JW religion.  Perhaps that's why I keep coming back. 
If there is one word, one example I can share that might inspire, it's worth the rhetoric because ya'll help me too.