I was arguing with a witless and she was telling me how bad Islam is, so I took the opportunity to point out how similar the society is to Islam.
Women are treated as second class.
All other religions are seen as evil.
They have their own religious book.
They are not allowed or strongly encouraged not to marry outside the religion.
They are not allowed to leave. In Islam apostates can be killed, and don't tell me elders would not kill apostates if they could get away with it.
The witless was stunned by what I had to say and went away very quietly. I later heard she left the Borg shortly after.

With my mother the key was the child abuse, she could not come to terms with the way those children were treated and the perpetrators were allowed to go free.

You really have to discover what each person will connect with, trial and error.

If you don't live on the edge you take up too much room