She is on the right track. Just be patient and calmly make little comments to reason with her. Don't make a big deal. If she is feeling bad about things, take her out, raise her spirits, tell her how pretty she is, be a really good husband to her. Hold her hand and just be really sweet and let her know you adore her. That will help a lot on her listening to you here and there. Your wife has to get beyond that guilty feeling to let the reason into her heart and to come out of the bubble. Once she is out, I think it will be pretty fast that she realizes how crazy it all is.

With your daughter, I have a 4 year old little girl. Her dad says all kinds of stuff to her, and they are sponges. If your wife does not come around, make sure you have special one on one daddy time, and teach her lessons. Tell her that she learns things from the kingdom hall but those are just people's opionions, doesnt mean they are right. Sometimes people are confused. Blah blah, and teach her what you want her to believe. She will get the doubts planted also. Hang in there. My kids are finally starting to come around and it has been a year!