It's all hearsay Stiffled! You're not in any position at all ... unless you allow yourself to be of course. Just do what the average j-dub paedophile, spouse abuser and liar will do ... and deny deny deny. Unless they have evidential proof from 'two or more witnesses to the event' ... it's still only hearsay. I'd stick to my guns and wipe it off as mischief making.

As for your lady love ... only you can decide what to do there. She is old enough to stand her own ground despite her father's control. It gets back to how much more of this contrived bullshit you can put up with mate.