I recently went to my nephews wedding at a KH. I was never so nervous in my life. I got pic's but left as soon as possible afterwards. Of course I wasn't invited to the reception and to be honest I would have found it very difficult since that is where all of the hob knobbing is done. Questions from different ones I really didn't want to discuss. Anyway, if at all possible don't burn your bridges. I'm glad I didn't.