Thank you all for your advice. After thoughtfully talking it over with my hubby, we decided to go ahead and go to the wedding and the reception. My husband said that despite his cousin is a JW, that he has never tried to get him to go to meetings or preach to him so he feels comforatble going. So hopefully we wont be quizzed to bad about why me and the girls no longer attend meetings (my husband has never attended any jw meetings).