Heres the update: Wedding was sooooo boring and my husband was extremly uncomforatble. He said he didnt agree with how they did it, I thought it was typical. Then the grooms sister wasnt invited to the reception, which was stupid if you ask me , allowed to the wedding but not the reception? The the grooms father basically put me in a headlock (in front of my hubby) and said it took me 13 years so you need to start going back to the meetings, then I told him It's not the cigarettes...lol. Wow they are delusional. The elders were rude too, until we told them our last name and they realized that we are relatives of the groom. So at the reception, boring, no alcohol and they made everyone wait an hour before the bride and groom showed. By that time the kids were ready to chew their arms off...lol. When we finally got to eat we decided to go to the bathroom and to not come back...lol. Then we stopped at the gas station, got a 6-pack, and had our own little party. I am so glad I found this support group and I want to thank you for helping me realize that this religion is a prison of the mind!