Scooterspank ... how very sad things have gone the way they have for you. Don't take offence at the 'bitter' comment ... it's what I was told 30 odd years ago and it seems to be a universal jdub emotional blackmail 'string' to pull when needed. It's not wrong to want to live life the way you see fit but sadly our jdub parents don't often think the same way. They are so well programmed and indoctrinated that they forget to be themselves.

I do hope you're able to sort this one out ... must be awful for you. ((( hugs )))

"Thanks to God .... for making me an Atheist!"
Ricky Gervais
Golden Globe Awards - 2011