I agree. You had better do some reading on here. Teh only other thing I can say is, no you cannot start tagging along without making a committment. If you begin to study with someone, they will drop you eventually and you'll be considered bad association if you study and then don't get baptized. It won't be as bad as being disfellowshipped, but she would be required to stop seeing you, if indeed she even does so if you begin to study. If she's a real good jw, she won't even consider to date you until you are baptized. It's really not worth it. Read on here for a bit, and you'll see why.