Oh im very sorry, I didnt mean to emphasize "growing up" any positive lesson learned is very welcome! My main point here is just to think over positives so we can take that and use it (even if the negatives far outweigh the positives). And interesting take on not being allowed sports! Im liking this positive creativity. Ill throw out another one. I actually liked dressing up. I know many dont but I like wearing a suit, makes me feel gentlemanly. Might be silly to some and its not horribly important to me, but w/e I liked dressing up

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