Hi there Nick ....... and welcome too

I would take the advice to read up as much as you can about the Jehovah's Witness faith ... and not just from their side either. Being given an ultimatum to go along to meetings in order to get to know her better ... is tantamount to giving you an ultimatum. If you don't go ... you don't get to know her. I'd stay away

"Thanks to God .... for making me an Atheist!"
Ricky Gervais
Golden Globe Awards - 2011