Baggage is right. Even if she were to leave the JWs for you....she would lose everyone, if her family is a JW, she would lose them, friends lose them, etc etc....So there are tears and resentments (mostly against you) that build up over time, she will probably go back and get re-instated and then the pressure is REALLY on to get you to "join" and "love the leader" Baggage baggage and more baggage.

Dude, really, shake this off your boots and move on.