And just to add a point which isn't the most important by any means, but hey... since i didn't notice it being commented on before, dont plan on much Foreplay and deffinitly no ENDplay during alone time till your married. Actually not much real alone time with her till your married anyways (oh ya, chaperones woot woot!) :-\ . Makes it hard to get to know the real person till then imo. and ya then theres changing every other aspect of your life to deal with lol. Or changing hers, which is equally hard if not impossible