Thanks for the kind words, Solitaire. I really hope a positive outcome is possible.

ThinkinGirl! wow, that's an compelling story. Just goes to show you how jws love can be conditional when compared to so-called worldly people. You must feel the difference when your now-boyfriend supports you regardless of the choices you make and gives you enough space and freedom to choose your own path without the fear of loosing his support. For now, I think that's the case with my marriage also. I just have to make sure I open her eyes soon enough. Apparently (according to the ever changing WT doctrines) it's now ok to separate from your marriage mate if you think he is endangering your spiritual life. Which is similar to saying that God's law regarding marriage and divorce is not enough according to the GB. They just keep on adding to His word. bah!