Dubstep don’t give up hope. You have the most important foundation, which is a healthy marriage in which communication is encouraged among you two. I really think giving her some space on the matter to sort out things for herself will work out the best. Meanwhile it’s perfectly fine to have conversations with her from time to time about your own doubts concerning the org, never being too pushy on your views and always asking her point of view concerning this discrepancy in JW belief, practice, or failed teaching. This seems to have worked in my part, and you never know it could work for you. The most important thing in these situations I think is always keeping in mind how much these people mean to us, and how we must always be patient with them as it is not easy sometimes throwing away a belief system you held all your life no matter how nuts it is.

Good luck on your predicament buddy! I hope it works out best for both of you…