Exactly 

 Hi GfA!  Yes, that's pretty much how it goes for me too. It's like being awake, while everyone else is still lashing out in their sleep against their imagined demons...   

You and me can go and do and be successful at anything we want to do in life! We are free!  

But every time we look back  and try  to share our successes,   we are told that we are evil or damned.... By people who are so unsuccessful and flawed  and stuck in the past!  It just makes no sense.  Just keep on keeping on. Religious fundamentalist families can't be fixed by just one man.  Ever onward we must go.