GFA ... it hurts us because we actually DO care mate! We are not the ones trying to attach strings to our jdub family members or friends. Nor are we trying to swamp them in ever-increasing clouds of guilt, fear and recrimination. It hurts because it's NOT how we would choose to treat others.

You ARE free mate. You are a writer and you are allowed to express yourself which ever way you see fit. Your vitriolic filled bro is jealous! He cannot speak as freely as you can ... and it's frustrating him!

Don't let the bastards get you down ..... but you're allowed to speak freely about your upbringing as it's better out than in!

"Walk your life without fear.
Walk strong."


~ advice from Rafaela of the Raramuri - Mexico ~