I would not go back now, no matter how they changed. But if they'd changed early on, I'd have needed them to quit shunning people, to quit being so controlling, to quit laying guilt. Quit being so exclusive with an us vs them attitude. Quit trying to not be "part of the world". Heck, they're part of the world, they just do it badly. Quit being a cult and I might have stayed way back.

Janet