We had an article in one of our online newspapers here with one person very cleverly and reverently saying .......

I'm a 'bereaver' ....



I like that comment and I'm sure Davy Jones would have too ... given he had a gloriously wicked sense of humour. I used to watch "The Monkees" on TV when growing up ........

"... Don't let inherited or programmed fear and guilt drag you down
... life is for living not being afraid to live ...
so celebrate your freedom!"