Whytebyrd2:

How do we now REACH our loved ones who are still trapped?

I treat them like I always treated them. I treat them as family, like nothing different has happened. I visit them when I am in their town (We live several kilometres away--about 670 or so). I invite them for a meal if I feel up to it. What I do not do is kowtow to them; that would give them a wrong signal. They will then think that I am playing up to them, I need them, or some such thing. I want them to clearly see that I am (we are as a family) quite fine and are not in need of anything from them. We still are the same loving selves as before and are quite happy the way we are and the life we have now. We show concern for them without any strings attached. But, when anyone of them chooses to shun, that is their choice not mine or ours and I show that I am no less affected. 

How do WE answer back as to our SUCCESS?

They have never asked because they can see it for themselves. It is quite plain for to all to see that we are happy--actually happier than we were before. There is no need to hide the lamp under a couch--we just let the light shine and speak for itself.