I know that this will be an "elders matter", but i believe none of them will be involved(at least in the beginning) because my father himself is an elder and the coordinator of the body of elders, so it is pretty much his business.
  
    And I am tented to make a move now, because my dad now had some kind of revelation that he hadn't been around for me (how time goes by and I grown up in no time; that kind of paranoia parents get when their child is no longer a child, now that I'm graduating school and stuff) and he is ready to please me in any way. So I think now it would be the proper time because, even if he will be disappointed, he won't get mad. 
  
    Anyway, sooner or later, it's the same thing after all. And they won't kick me out of the house, that I know for sure. It was me who decided to leave, so my parents won't be blamed in the community (you know what I'm talking about). Thank you very much for your support guys, it's priceless. I mean this.

                            I'll let you know if anything changes.......smiley: happy (wish me luck and hope for the best).