Don't be too disappointed with your lady Calm ....... even if she knew about the religion itself, she's unlikely to truly understand the depth of the downsides of it without experiencing it firsthand herself. In saying that though ... she will learn to understand it by chatting with you! You may be just as therapeutic for her ... as she will be for you!!!!!

The idea of going to therapy IS to be candid .... so take a deep breath and talk to you, just like you finger-talk to us! Given you already know that you're a people pleaser ... tell her that when you see her for your next appointment, and let her know that you want to stop that particular personality trait or at least control it better. You may surprise yourself at how easily it can be done!

"Life is too short to spend with people who suck the happiness out of you!"