Hello Deano! I'm proud of your move to go to the police. Many years ago, within weeks of having been kicked out of the Witzorg I found myself being stalked by a former roommate. Actually I didn't find that, the security department where I worked noticed her 'lurking' and confronted her. She claimed I had stolen some stuff from her and they, bless 'em, made her write down the list including tampons, shampoo for blonds and a half dozen other tid bits that couldn't total $25 dollars--none of which I took. I took that list directly to the local police station and asked them to tell her that if she was accusing me of theft she needed to press charges. She did not. The stalking stopped. I came to believe that she was acting on the direction of the elders to obtain my new address. (I had been thrown out of my JW-owned apartment the morning after the announcement of my disfellowshipping was made.) They never did find that out either.

I tell you that story because you may need confirmation that they are sneaky s.o.b.s who have/or will have once they D/F you, lost all control over you and they'll do stupid stuff to keep the illusion of control going for no other reason than that's all they know how to do. The thing is--YOU will have all the power once they "cast you out to the demons". Contacting the police--God, how they fear for their reputation among law enforcement--will stop them dead, like a dear facing an oncoming train. You should have no troubles with them unless you want to go back to their vomit.

Remember The Have No Power Over You once you are D/F'd. The only power left for them is over those still in the KH--sadly that could include family you love or folks you once considered friends. You are free! Go ahead and make the great life you were meant to have!

Hugs, Grandma Cee Cee