thing is i ask if i could bring a legal rep as in brief or Lawyer..that was abig no no...but the elder/co-ordinator from fleetwood Congregation lancashire uk(ooopps did i say that)  recorded my phone call....absolutley stupid..and also very petty on things..you no what i use to work for the Ministry of defence b4 i came back to the religoun,as i left for many years...and have pulled people out of bomb blast i have also have had my freinds in my arms dead due to political unrest in Northern Ireland many years back..and this is so pathetic and stupid whats going on...at least i never cut ties of with people in the"world"as it is said!!!!!i still have a good network of freinds..but how they want to make you feel socialy deserted beats me ..but hey it has not worked .thing is i do no the law quite well hear in UK...and feel this may have made them on edge........thing is i do quite alot of work in Mental Health/psychology and see how the org control people with NLP and other ways of mind manipulation..which is very sad..no different than grooming what sex abuser's do before they prey and attack their victim..................