It's not just former jdubs who have issues that a counsellor could help with Cathy ... and a lot of people are quite loathe to freely talk about their feelings, what they're going through, what they've been through. It can be quite liberating and healing to talk things through with someone who isn't as close emotionally and who can offer a more balanced less emotional set of strategies as a way of working through things. Counsellors, psychologists, mediators, psychiatrists ... they're all different but all offer support that is usually kept confidential.

"Life is too short to spend with people who suck the happiness out of you!"