Ive been there. My parents now know about my boyfriend. Im living with him in a house share with his brother and his girlfriend for uni. They're adjusting but ok. But thats a bonus. It was hard but I decided 'fuck it im doing this its my life and they should stop pressuring me and making me worry about them them so much' so I went for it, told them and.....the world didn't come crashing down. Its not perfect. But its ok. Find a way it can sound acceptable and stand your ground. If they care they will stop making you feel like shit.

Because your posy sounds exactly like my brain sometimes. And reading it from someone else helps me realise how crazy it is that we put ourselves through this crap! Good luck honey, and try to care a little less....its ok.