Clever,

I felt the "craziness" even by association! When in marriage therapy with my husband, the therapist was clueless about the JW and honestly, the therapist began to view my worries about my husband on the path into the JW, and fears of what it will do to our family, or his extended close family that could become in the middle of a nasty apostasy choice in years to come, as unwarranted and even unacceptable!
( Since then I did finally point blank asked the therapist if he knew anything at all about the JW and he admitted not to know anything. I pointed out that it was very important and left it at that. I hope he is smart enough to do a little real research into it)

Unless a person has either been there done that, or at least studied IN DEPTH for years , there is no way for others to really "get it". I know my studying as an outsider only scratches the surface, but it is many miles ahead of most other people. At least I begin to "get it" enough to know for sure you and others like you are NOT crazy.