I also remember a regular pioneer elder who married a sister who had two children from a previous marriage. Her ex-husband was wealthy, and paid a lot in child-support. 

Reg pio elder new husband used the child support money to get hair plugs. 

His wife was too "submissive" to fight him on this. 

I think we all agree that it isn't so much the accepting of well-needed help sometimes. It's the hypocrisy of ALWAYS, ALWAYS spewing hatred for "Satan's World" when, despite all the flaws in all our governments, they feed and house us and teach our children and provide police and fire protection, etc. And often are fully capable of working but instead pioneer and make it seem like driving around all day long going from one ol' Charlie call to the next and stopping for endless breaks and picking up this one and dropping off that one is SO SO hard and they are really EXERTING themselves vigorously.

Give me a break.