Just had to rant.
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xeracia.thethinkingjeho... |
I hate living in the city |
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I was driving home from picking my daughter up from school. I've had this problem with my car which causes it to overheat when sitting at an idle. And
picking up my daughter...well I am going very very slowly in this long line of cars for about 15 minutes in the pickup line. So my car is overheating at this
point and the only way to get the temperature down is to accelerate. So I am driving into my little suburban neighborhood and accelerating a bit quickly to get
up to a whole 25 mph. Some guy follows me to my house and honks his horn as I am going inside..I walk down to the curb to see what he wants. He says 'could
you please not accelerate so quickly, I have kids'. I rolled my eyes and walked inside. I have kids too! I teach my kids to watch for traffic. I don't
go chasing everyone that speeds down my street to tell them to stop speeding because of my kids. I wasn't speeding. I accelerated too fast for his liking.
PLEASE! Teach your children to watch for cars and leave me alone! Accelerating to get up to 25 miles an hour is not against the law. Don't follow a woman
by herself with a 6 year old to her house!
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sweetgherkin |
then move to the country | ||
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and you will find lots of lovely people who never disagree with you.
When you get there, report back to the rest of us. You would be like the first person on the moon. |
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AndriaSyxx |
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Rant away Xeracia ... I'd have been cross had it been me who had been followed by some whack job out to tell you how to drive. Unless you were doing donuts
and fish tailing your way down the road and aiming for all the children in sight ... you have nothing to feel bad about. Having a car play up in heavy traffic
is not something I'd like to endure either but it does happen. Don't let him get to you ... had you been a big burly fella ... he'd have mumbled,
perhaps given you the two finger salute, then he'd have taken off without stopping. You were an easy target for him and he was obviously in a bad mood at
the time. If he had to follow you ... it meant his kids were already in the car ... I can't see how you'd have hit them by accelerating enough to keep
the revs up in your engine. What a loser.
I used to drive a big V8 Ford GT that required me to keep the revs up when sitting at lights and/or intersections and being stuck in a long line of cars meant I had to rev the guts out of the car without slamming into the car in front. I've also lived in two large cities (by Aussie standards) and several large, small and tiny country towns Xeracia ... and each place I've lived in has the same type of driver who just has to have his (or her) two cents worth because they've nothing better to do with their lives. If you see him again ... give him the two finger salute from me ... and if he can't 'hear' you ... turn the 'middle finger' volume up for him!
"A loving heart is the truest wisdom"
~~ Charles Dickens ~~
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xeracia.thethinkingjeho... |
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sweet - I lived in the country for 7 years before I moved here...Never had the problems I have living in suburbia. It's a bit difficult to get used to.
Husband thinks it was just because we have a souped up car that is a bit loud when I accelerate. He knows how I drive and knows there was no way I was doing anything that would put anyone in danger.... I'm over it now of course. It was all rather silly. Thanks for letting me rant. |
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amymathieu |
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I agree there was no need for him to follow you and try to intimidate you. Next time pick up a rock!! just to show him you just might.
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Ronnie45 |
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I can see why you would be upset Xeracia... I probably would be as well. The person really had no business doing what they did, and as you say, it was nothing unlawful on your part.
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05/25/09 15:20:48.
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Techieguy1979 |
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I know the feeling all to well xeracia and I'm sorry you had to take his shit. I had a guy come up to my car and tell me I need to move my car because he
had somebody he needed to pick up. Mind you we had been sitting at a traffic light for three rounds of the signals because traffic was not moving in front of
me. oh, and nobody else has anything to do besides you?! Bite me....I guess that in the end some people don't know how to stay out of other peoples
business I guess.
The thing I treasure most in life cannot be taken away
There will never be a reason why I will surrender to your advice To change myself, I'd rather die Though they will not understand I won't make the greatest sacrifice You can't predict where the outcome lies You'll never take me alive I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive Disturbed - I'm Alive |
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sweetgherkin |
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Please be aware is all that what might not be 'anger management' to one person may be to another person..... thanks.I didn't know this was the "either join me in my anger, or give me hugs" thread. I guess I do now. |
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Ronnie45 |
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I didn't know this was the "either join me in my anger, or give me hugs" thread.That is an incorrect analogy as well actually.. I don't often point out all errors, but will not hesitate to if I think it's needed to keep things on a positive note and/or if something is needing attention. It's part of my responsibility to the website as a whole. I have been meaning to outline a few key points in our forum guidelines and will try to do that shortly for any select few that would benefit from it. Any further issues on this matter vs. the original topic matter would be best sent to my pm box... thanks..
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matitalica |
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One day I parked in a gas station parking lot about two car lenghts away from an ATM, left enough room for a car to get to it, when I came out of the station
about 45 seconds later, some guy parked behind me and yelled at me who I thought I was blocking the drive way to the drive up ATM, I calmly told him, sorry, I
thought I left enough room for a car to get through, which I did, so he cussed me out, yelling and screaming, so I lost it and told him he could've gotten
his fat ass out of his truck, so I got back in my truck then he came up and started yelling at me telling me to get out, so I opened my door, but he was so
close it hit him and he fell flat on his but then rolled down a little hill, he was so fat he could hardly get up, so I yelled back at him, " you can get
out of your frickin truck to yell at me but not get cash, your a dumb bastard.......said a few more explatives, I waited a few more seconds for him to charge
at me or something, but he was so winded by trying to stand up I got bored and left. I occasionaly go into albuquerque and just can't stand the traffic, I
hate the traffic the most.
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AndriaSyxx |
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the poor fella must have been totally humiliated!
I remember a day when Gav parked his car lengthways against a curb so he could run into a shop really quickly and he left me sitting in the car. A man came out of the same shop munching away on an icecream, saw where Gav had parked the car (plenty of room for him to get out) and gave me a withering look. He was still eating his icecream and had managed to open his car door without having to use his icecream holding hand. There was no way he could have driven off without first eating the entire thing but nope ... he decided to escalate the withering looks to a full on 'get your f***ing car out of my f***ing way'. I was not in the mood for an asswipe like that ... so I returned his withering look, called out through the window "we'll be gone by the time you finish your food" and ignored him. Nope. Still not good enough for him. He starts waving his free arm ... still licking the darned icecream ... and gets louder. By this time, his wife was by his side and she started joining in. I gave them both a withering look, called out "fine ... obviously you are both far more important than me ..." and I struggled my way out of the front seat, walked awkwardly around the back of the car, opened the driver's seat door ... gave them another withering look, shook my head ... and struggled my way back into the front seat. "Oh it's okay ... you don't have to move the car just yet ..." calls out the now highly embarrassed man. His wife made the fastest entry into her car that I've ever seen. "It's perfectly fine mate ... you're more important than me ... I get it ..." and I moved the car. Their embarrassment was due to fact I was heavily pregnant with our second son! Soon as they saw my belly ... they both must have wanted the biggest hole in the world to open up and I'm so glad they couldn't find one! It was far more entertaining watching their faces change colour!
City or country ... there's always going to be asswipes!
"A loving heart is the truest wisdom"
~~ Charles Dickens ~~
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sweetgherkin |
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matitalica wrote:Oh the memories... I had fun playing with my Fisher Price Little People and Weeble Wobbles too. |
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Mr Wiggles |
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Try taking the thermostat out of your car (if it's warm this time of year where you live) until you get the cooling problem sorted. Overheating at idle is
typically a stuck 'stat or a block in the cooling system somewhere. If you take the 'stat out and it stops overheating, you're golden, buy a new
one and put it in, if it still overheats, try diagnosing the cooling system with an open test.
Sorry about the jackass, hopefully you can spit some gravel at him next time you drive by!
- Elias
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xeracia.thethinkingjeho... |
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Oh we bought a new water pump and timing belt. Going to install it this weekend and hope that fixes the problem. It has been doing this every summer for two
years now. Will be nice to have it fixed.
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Mr Wiggles |
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nice. make sure you change the t-stat at the same time and put fresh coolant in there. you should be good to go.
- Elias
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