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Just a thought to add - unless she changes the locks, she can't kick you out. Even if she calls the police, they can't make you go unless you are being violent in some manner. Under the law, if someone invites you to live with them or stay for an extended time - you cannot be made to leave since they willingly allowed you in the first place. The reason I know that is because my oldest brother is a raging alcoholic who spends half his life in jail the other bumming off of family and friends. When my other brother tried to have him forcibly removed off his property the police said they could not because he had invited him to live there and was not causing any physical harm. Obviously since you have never stopped living with your mom it would apply just the same. This is not to say she might make you miserable in the process. But it might motivate you even more to get a stable job and roommate as others here suggested. This isn't as relatable, but when I was 21 I moved back in with my parents to go to school full time. They didnt bother me about meetings because I had made my position very clear about that. However I had a boyfriend and it was clear we did more than hold hands ! My dad sat me down one day as mad as he could be because I was coming home late and staying with my boyfriend over night, he proceeded to try and ground me! I as politely could manage held back from laughing in his face and let him know I was 21 - an adult who was not under his control just because I lived at his house. I was going to do things as respectfully as I could under his roof but outside that roof was not his business! Made very clear I was on a plan to move as soon as I could and not to worry. Which happend a month later. The point is even if you are living under their roof, once past the age of being told how to wipe your booty you have to make clear where your boundaries lie for what you will be made to do anymore - that's just apart of growing up and cutting mamma's apron strings.