She has two small children and is 29. I am 41 and have never been married. She initiated the entire affair with me. I even had a meeting with her, away from prying eyes, to ask her what promoted her to approach me with such an idea.
I have no respect for her marriage due to its cult origins, therefore I can rationalize the relationship.
She says that JW is responsible for who she is, but makes comments that show her displeasure with the process often. She becomes very defensive when questioned about anything JW so I don't even go there with her regarding ANYTHING JW. She has the classic history of a JW female. Sexual abuse, depression, married young, children young. When I questioned her marriage happiness she claims she is very happy. I pursued this further and she told me she felt like she was being "grilled". I can only imagine that she would be persecuted much more severely than if she was having an affair with another JW, and they will attempt to take her children from her as well as d'f her.
I am a practicing Anglican Catholic and always will be. I am well educated and have had business relationships with several JW where I work. She has never tried to persuade me to join or attend, nor could she because it would be obvious how I ended up there. The local KH she attends has only 180 members, and I know over a dozen of them.
Our relationship has been emotional, physical, and we are in constant contact via text msgs and emails. According to what I have read about prohibited sexual contact ( never mind having extramarital affairs ) we have done everything that you cannot do even with a JW spouse. I told her she would get caught, but she seems oblivious to the trail she leaves. Her husband accused her of cheating the other night, but we doubt he knows anything. I KNOW she is going to get caught. We have traded literally thousands of text messages.
I am in great fear for she and her children.
Is this a self-sabotage attempt by her to escape? She claims that I have a drug like affect over her. She has to realize what will happen to her if she is discovered, especially since many of her KH members know me! It would be such a scandal! It would not affect my business at all and it would actually please me somewhat perversely to "save her" from this dangerous cult.
I have posted this on other ex-JW boards but no one has replied. Can someone help me PLEASE?
All I want to know is what will happen to her when it is discovered that she has been having an affair with me - in as much detail as possible please so I can be prepared.
Edited by Andria ... Concerned1 ... have moved this to an easier to access part of the forum mate