She said: I'm sorry you see things the way you do.I didn't scream,my heart was broken and I didn't want to upset you any more than you already were. You are a very bitter young lady about things you are assuming and not correct.You refuse to have a civil conversation about our differences and that makes me sad.
Wish you had discussed these things many years ago,maybe we wouldn't be at the point we are now.You are the love of my life,my sunshine,and I hope my best friend.You are the one shunning me,no phone,no text I'm puzzled by that.
LOVE YOU FOREVER
Mom
I said: 2) I don't like seeing my mother heartbroken and I don't like being told I'm going to die. 3) I am NOT a bitter person! And if my behavior comes off as bitter it is most likely based on past experience. I have been shunned by family before or don't you remember? 4) I haven't had to have any kind of discussion civil or otherwise about this. It hasn't mattered for years. I respect your choice, I just don't want to talk about it. You say we should discuss our differences, how about we just agree to disagree? 5) What should I have discussed with you years ago? My actions alone should be testament to the fact that I don't want to be a witness. 6) I am not shunning you. You are lying when you say I haven't called or sent you a text. I talked to you Thursday and thought we had a nice conversation. After what happened two Sundays ago I wanted to give you a day or two home before I talked to you. The messages that ----- and I sent back and forth were my expression of genuine anxiety over what kind of mind set you would all come home with. 7) You have been my best friend and you know that. The only thing that has changed is this elephant in the room. I love you and I want our relationship to go back to the way it was before you came home from the assembly. I'm happy you are happy and that this fills a need in your life, but I don't share that need. I don't know what else to say except I love you with all my heart.
Wish you had discussed these things many years ago,maybe we wouldn't be at the point we are now.You are the love of my life,my sunshine,and I hope my best friend.You are the one shunning me,no phone,no text I'm puzzled by that.
LOVE YOU FOREVER
Mom
I said: 2) I don't like seeing my mother heartbroken and I don't like being told I'm going to die. 3) I am NOT a bitter person! And if my behavior comes off as bitter it is most likely based on past experience. I have been shunned by family before or don't you remember? 4) I haven't had to have any kind of discussion civil or otherwise about this. It hasn't mattered for years. I respect your choice, I just don't want to talk about it. You say we should discuss our differences, how about we just agree to disagree? 5) What should I have discussed with you years ago? My actions alone should be testament to the fact that I don't want to be a witness. 6) I am not shunning you. You are lying when you say I haven't called or sent you a text. I talked to you Thursday and thought we had a nice conversation. After what happened two Sundays ago I wanted to give you a day or two home before I talked to you. The messages that ----- and I sent back and forth were my expression of genuine anxiety over what kind of mind set you would all come home with. 7) You have been my best friend and you know that. The only thing that has changed is this elephant in the room. I love you and I want our relationship to go back to the way it was before you came home from the assembly. I'm happy you are happy and that this fills a need in your life, but I don't share that need. I don't know what else to say except I love you with all my heart.
